I slept with a teacher of mine and with one of my bosses. Both of them were in a position of authority in relation to me but I never felt victimised and I think that it is possible to sleep with someone in a position of power and not be a victim for both men and women. It might be wrong but still victimless. I don't think that all cases of sleeping with someone in a position of power automatically have a victim. But then, many indeed do.